Sorry... really... I'm an idiot...

[Fairlight]

As a habit, I usually prefix such posts with "PRIVATE - " in the subject
header so that it's copiously obvious to both the recipient and myself
which half of a thread is bouncing back and forth and where it should be
going.  I do the in-body "offlist" thing too, but I always change my
subject line because in most clients you see that all time anyway.

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